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Thanks for the Memories

A Year of Travel

Ocean waves crash against the towering cliffs                                                                    

Saguaro cacti raise giant arms to thank the setting sun 

Under cold ground, I pause in wonder at cathedral canyons 

Mountain top drives give new perspective and make me feel small 

The Grand Canyon brings tears to my eyes 

What could I have done to deserve such beauty

I have done nothing, for it is all a gift 

Soft sheets, slow mornings, and plenty of time 

Surprises in the form of beach houses and a Marriot vacation club 

Tiny houses, smelly casitas, creaky cabin beds, and deflating air mattresses 

A wide range of experiences made for a most memorable year

Time for petting horses and watching a rodeo parade 

For watching seabirds on the beach and waiting in anticipation for the daily sunrise and sunset 

Painting, journaling, knitting, watching Wheel of Fortune, and trying new recipes 

Learning about time zones, jellyfish, desert plants, aquaponics, civil rights, and redwood trees 

Eating étouffée, beignets, grits, a crab boil, clam chowder, charcuterie, BBQ, and sweet tea

All of the packing and unpacking helped me know the sweetness of a closet to come home to 

Growing up with cold made a winter of warmth feel extravagant 

What a gift to have so many daily walks to cross the bridges we needed to cross 

So many reunions with family and friends on the story hunt of a lifetime 

Sweet souls gave up their beds and their towels; made us meatloaf, and opened their hearts

We took a leap and the net appeared 

A crazy dream to travel the U.S. for six months became a reality 

Now that we are home, it feels like a dream 

An expansive catalog of memories that I never want to forget       

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South Dakota….our LAST stop!!

We did it! We traveled for 6 months and made it across the whole Southern United States from Florida to California. I’m getting excited to sit back and reflect on the trip as a whole, but before that…One More Stop. The beautiful, yet often overlooked state of South Dakota.

We stayed in Rapid City for two nights at the Fairmount Inn (thanks to John and Julie Goos for sharing their hotel points 😊). The girls loved the water park attached to the hotel. We also enjoyed a couple visits with Mark’s aunt and uncle, Kent and Deb. They took us out to their favorite pizza place and also to their house for some lefse and more visiting.

We visited Mount Rushmore and Custer State Park. We saw deer, buffalo, donkeys, and prairie dogs on our drive through the wildlife loop. We would have driven more of the scenic drives if it had been the beginning of the trip, but we were just too tired of driving.

When it got dark, we drove out on a gravel road away from the city lights to look at stars. The Northern Lights were spectacular. A lot of other cars were parked along the same road looking at the lights. The beautiful night came to a sudden end when Ivy had to pee on the side of the road and we simultaneously somehow set off our car alarm. Worried that we were “making a scene” we headed back to the hotel.

Our last stop in South Dakota was in Sioux Falls. We stayed at another hotel and met up at the Olive Garden with Ben and Ona Duebner and their son. We were incredibly honored that they would drive 2 HOURS to see us!! It made our whole week

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Colorado – Part 3

After leaving Boulder, we backtracked to Colorado Springs. On our first trip through the springs, Mark posted something on Instagram about where we were, and a Jr. High classmate from Dassel-Cokato messaged and said:

“You are in my town. Let’s get together!” This classmate offered their house as a place to stay when we came back through the Springs the next weekend. We were able to cancel our airbnb reservation and stay with Chad and Heather instead. This trip has been a series of surprises and blessings. This stay was one of them.
The Behnkens were great hosts. We were able to relax for 4 nights in their beautiful home. They win the award for best view from the kitchen window and the best backyard, with a trampoline and zip-line.

While in the Springs, Malia went to a tennis class, we visited our friends the Housari’s again, and we attended New Life Church where 150 people got baptized on a Sunday!

At this point in the trip, we are all counting down the number of times we have left to pack and unpack our suitcases.
Our next and last stop in Colorado was Greeley, home of Mark’s Bible School classmates, Scott and Rochelle. The Mundfroms were amazing hosts. They rolled out the red carpet for us, taking us out to dinner several times in four nights we were there. Their two oldest daughters are also in college like ours, so we took their empty bedrooms in the basement. Rochelle is a music teacher and has a piano, so it was fun to sit and play a bit. Boy, is my playing rusty after 6 months with no piano! The giant dog, Bogey, kept us company while Scott and Rochelle were at work. The girls took turns filling his bowl with his snack of choice – ice cubes.

Greeley is really close to Loveland, CO where my first childhood piano teacher lives. Her daughter, Becki,met us for an afternoon. She took us to see her mom and dad at the retirement home, and then out to dinner. It was great to see them and reminisce about our childhood days growing up in Marshall, MN.

Our “Friday field trip” this week was to Estes Park. Mark took the girls and I back to the YMCA camp where he spent lots of summers going to AFLBS youth conventions in the 90’s. We walked downtown Estes Park and did all the touristy things like buying taffy and ice cream and touring the Stanley Hotel.

I love visiting old, historic buildings. Walking into the Stanley felt like stepping back in time. There were old postcards displayed, written by guests at the hotel, dating back to the early 1900’s. Reading these postcards reminded me that traveling the country is not a new idea. We have it easy now with modern roads, a great new vehicle, and cell phones to tell us where to go, when to stop, and what to eat. Back when this postcard was written, they couldn’t text their mother in-law the address of where they were staying each night. It was a postcard, a stamp, and a little faith in the US Postal Service.

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Las Vegas and the Grand Canyon

Las Vegas
We spent 3 days at a hotel in Las Vegas.
The last time Mark and I were in Vegas was 12 years ago. I was excited to go back and show the kids the Bellagio Fountain, my favorite spot in the city. We walked from our hotel to the Bellagio, stopping on the way for a slice of pizza. By the time we got to the fountain, Ivy, my 9 year old was holding her tummy and complaining of feeling sick. She was crunched over and moaning, “I need to go back to the hotel. I don’t want to be here.”

At first, I thought it was the pizza, but since none of the rest of us who had eaten the pizza were feeling sick, I wondered if what she was feeling was anxiety. We found a quiet hallway and sat down to take a break. We talked through how she was feeling about the cigarette smoke, walking through a casino, and seeing people dressed up in masks of clowns and Donald Trump. She was able to communicate that she didn’t feel comfortable in Las Vegas. She had a similar reaction in New Orleans. She said it was too loud and there was too much smoking.


The next day, we decided to drive outside the city and see the Hoover Dam and Memorial Bridge. The girls enjoyed that day more than the first. The third day, Mark stayed with Ivy back at the hotel and Malia and I went back to the strip and walked through the Bellagio flower show, Caesar’s Palace, the Mirage, and the Venetian. Two hours was plenty for Malia and I. We share a preference for quiet, outdoor spaces in nature over noise and bright city lights.

Change in Plans

We were all set to go to the North Rim of the Grand Canyon and then carry on to Arches and Canyonlands National Parks. Mark woke me up the morning we were scheduled to leave and said “We have to talk!” I am not a morning person, but the urgency in his voice woke me up pretty quickly. “The North Rim isn’t even open!” he said. “And it’s going to snow and rain all week at Arches”
I felt so dumb. I hadn’t even checked the website to know that the North Rim doesn’t open until May 1st. Snow and ice are common well into May in this part of the country. We quickly came up with a new plan and headed to Flagstaff, Arizona and the South Rim.

When we got close, we saw that there was a long line of cars waiting to get into the Canyon. Apparently, spring break brings the crowds. We were informed there would be up to a two hour wait just to get into the park. We waited until a little later in the day when the line had died down. We arrived around 2:30pm and only had to wait in line for about 30 minutes.

The Grand Canyon is AMAZING. When I first walked out to Mather Point, I felt my eyes well up with tears. I wasn’t expecting to cry, but the beauty and grandeur of the canyon filled me with emotion. I’d been to the North Rim before, but this was my first time at the South Rim. There were more options for trails to walk at the South Rim and shuttle buses to take you to the different overlooks.

Many people have said a good time to visit the National Parks is in the fall instead of during the summer or over spring break. It was busy, but I didn’t mind that much. It’s such a huge area, and you can always find places off the beaten path if you get tired of the crowds of people taking selfies. Photos really don’t fully capture the Grand Canyon; you really must visit at least once during your lifetime!

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Disco in the Desert

We just finished a month stay in Vail, Arizona at Solquest Retreat. Vail is a small town within driving distance of Tucson. We were able to explore Saguaro National Park, Sabino Canyon, Madera Canyon, Mount Lemmon, the Desert Museum, Medella Vina horse ranch, and the Tucson rodeo and gem show.

It snowed 3 times during our month stay, which is unheard of in Arizona. Many days were cold enough for us to need our winter coats. It was still much nicer than back in Minnesota though. Our family back home experienced record snowfall and blizzard conditions on and off all month.

I went into this month seeing it as an intentional personal retreat. I joined an online group to go through the book The Artists Way by Julia Cameron. One of the assignments was writing “morning pages”. These handwritten journals entries helped me uncover some harmful thoughts that have been hindering me from living my best life. I was able to recognize and release some fears and forgive myself for things I regret. Mark and I had some good talks that were important in strengthening our marriage.

Lisa Kindle, who we stayed with, is an artist. She supplied us with art supplies and a space to create. One of Lisa’s passions is the power of words through affirmations. You can learn more about Lisa’s work here.

Lisa Kindle Arts

She encouraged me to create my own personal affirmation cards and gave me the cutest little box to put the cards in. The front of the box says: “Give it to God” and the inside says “She is clothed with strength and dignity and she laughs without fear of the future”. Proverbs 31:25

Here are some examples of my affirmations.
I will speak these aloud to myself until I begin to believe them and live them out.

Being able to walk outside the front door and be surrounded by mountains was a great feeling. We drove up Mount Lemmon and took pictures at a place called Windy Point.
It was spectacular.

Another new experience was walking a giant prayer labyrinth right outside our door.

On our last weekend here, Dean and Lisa hosted a Disco in the Desert with Mark as the DJ. There were costumes, a photo booth, yoga with Kaeli Hines, fondue, and tie dye cookies. It was a fun night!

Mark did an awesome job, as always, bringing the music and lights.

As our time in Arizona comes to a close, we are so grateful. Our next stop is California. We have been on the road traveling for 4 months now! It’s hard to believe that we will be home in St Paul on May 1st. If you’d like to cheer us on toward the finish line, you can join our Patreon. It’s a $6 gift that will go straight to our gas money fund, and we will send you a postcard as a thank you! The Patreon will end when the trip ends so there is just one month left if you’d like a postcard.

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Ideas for Rainy (or snowy) Days

When you are traveling, there are bound to be a number of rainy (or snowy) days when your outdoor plans don’t go as planned. Here are a few fun things we have done on the days when we need to be inside.

GAMES

Since we have very limited space in the van, we could only choose a few favorite games to bring. Here are our the top 3.

Scrabble – a timeless word game that never gets old. To be fair, we didn’t bring this game along. We borrowed it from people we stayed with. It’s a game that most people have sitting on a shelf, even if it doesn’t get played.

Quiddler – Another word game involving cards. In round one, players get 3 cards to spell a word. In each round, one card is added. By the end of the game, players have 8 cards to make as many words as possible. A bonus is given for the player with the most words and the longest word during each round.

Monopoly Deal – I always hated monopoly because it took too long and involved too many small pieces. This version of the game can be played in less than 30 minutes and all you need is the deck of cards. Anyone who is able to read can play. No difficult math skills required. It helps to have someone who has played the game before teach it to you. It’s worth learning because once you get the hang of it, you will LOVE it.

Scavenger Hunts

Most kids enjoy scavenger hunts. Especially if there is some type of prize at the end. I created these two and used them with the kids on the trip. One is for the grocery store and the other for the library.
I’ve included links below to the printables I’ve created. If you have trouble getting to them, just send me a message and I can email them to you.
Free downloads below ⬇️

Grocery-Scavenger-Hunt-Download

Library-scavenger-hunt-Download


A few other little activities we have done almost every day rain or shine are:

Wordle – the online daily game put out by the New York Times. You have 5 guesses to figure out the chosen 5 letter word of the day.

Marco Polo – a great free app where you can send videos to family and friends and they can watch them on their own time and return videos back.


License Plate Search – when we are traveling, we are always on the look out for new license plates. When we find a state we haven’t seen before, we take a picture of it. Here are just a few.

Feel free to share your favorite games and travel activities in the comments. We still have 2 months left and could use some fresh ideas!

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Take a Risk or Play it Safe?

#1. Are you a risk taker?

#2. What’s the most dangerous thing you’ve ever done?

My answer to these questions before this year would be

# 1 – NO

#2 – I don’t believe in doing dangerous things!


Then came the decision to travel for 6 months. We moved out of our house of 10 years and hit the road with a rough plan, but many details yet to fill in. I struggled with how people would react to this choice we had made. It seemed reckless and crazy. It was out of character from the play it safe environment I had been raised in. What would people say about us? Would we fail, and come running home to a chorus of “I told you sos”. Would our younger kids resent us for taking them out of school? How would our older kids react to not having a home to come back to on breaks? What if there was a crisis or things didn’t go like we expected?

We packed up our van and hit the road on November 1st, 2022. I felt confident that this was the year to take this trip, and that God would take care of us and take care of our big kids who were not with us.

I had read that when you know that you are meant to do something and you step out and move toward that idea, things begin to work in your favor. That’s exactly what began to happen. People got excited for us and began to give us gifts, introduced us to people they knew, and offered practical suggestions.

“Leap, and the net will appear” is a phrase originally penned by James Burroughs, and re-quoted in countless other places. I clung to this phrase in the days before we left when I felt scared or unsure.

Oftentimes when we take a chance, others respond with help, and circumstances align in our favor. Julia Cameron in her book The Artist’s Way calls this synchronicity. The miracles of everything falling into place to support our travel vision cannot be denied or dismissed as luck. Many times during the trip, we have seen God open doors for us to stay in places we weren’t expecting.

If we wait until we are ready to do something that seems big or scary, we may never do it. We will never feel ready to take a risk.
Living this creative life takes faith and trust.

I don’t pretend to have it all figured out. I still struggle with fear and doubt, but taking risks gets easier the more I do it.

I’ve been looking at the life of Jesus lately and have been noticing that He never called his disciples to be safe.
If Jesus were walking with me right now, I believe He would not say be safe, but instead, be brave.

Brave means stepping outside my comfort zone. Brave means doing things that scare me. A few examples for me are

  • saying yes to being a guest on a podcast
  • becoming who I want to be instead of who others expect me to be and
  • calling myself an artist and a leader

What does being brave look like for you right now? Is there something you need to step into, but don’t feel ready? Take a couple steps forward. You can do it!

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Carlsbad Caverns

Three months into our USA road-trip, we finally visited our first National Park.
Carlsbad Caverns is located in New Mexico and is home to an incredible cave that you can walk down into and explore. Millions of bats live in the back of the cave and fly out at sunset. The bats stayed well hidden on our walk through. I watched videos ahead of time, but nothing could prepare me for the massiveness and wonder of this cave.
After reserving an entrance time online and paying your entrance fee (free with a National Parks pass) we took the 1.5 mile path down, down, down into the cave. There is an option to take an elevator down, but we opted to walk down.

The great room on the bottom of the cave is 750 feet below ground, so it is quite trek down. It was not very busy the day we were there, so it was dark, quiet, and eery. Ivy, our 8 year old, was scared and had a hard time enjoying the cave. I can imagine those with high anxiety in dark places may want to take the elevator. It was quite a workout on my leg muscles since the entire path was a steep downward slope. Once you are in the great room at the bottom of the cave, it is well lit and the ground is all flat. To walk through the entire cave it can take about 2.5 hours – it’s HUGE. We skipped the final mile loop so spent about 2 hours total from start to finish with lots of breaks to rest and drink water (bring a water bottle!)
Here are some photos of the cave. I highly recommend visiting this natural wonder. It is truly a work of art that far surpasses the beauty of any church or cathedral I’ve ever visited. It almost felt like a holy place.

The road into this National Park is about 7 miles long. When we arrived it was so foggy we couldn’t see much more than a few feet in front of us. By the time we left the park, the fog had lifted and we were able to see the beautiful landscape leaving the park. As we drove from Carlsbad to El Paso, Texas, we had the most gorgeous views of the Guadalupe Mountains.

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The Road is Long

We have been traveling now for almost 3 months. Our travels have brought us into 12 different family’s homes to spend the night and many others for a meal or short visit. We’ve also stayed in a cabin, a tiny house, a beach house, several airbnbs, and a handful of hotels.

Our shortest stay has been for one night and our longest stay for one month. The trip itself has not been physically exhausting. We have had very few responsibilities other than homeschooling, scheduling upcoming stays, and phone calls for Mark’s business.
What HAS been exhausting is the emotional toll of packing and unpacking so many times, battling our own doubts about the trip, and talking through all of the constant changes and unknowns as a family.

When you don’t have a familiar HOME to come back to, then wherever we are becomes home. I’ve even caught myself saying “let’s go home now” on nights we are staying in a hotel. Home has been the resting place at the end of the day, wherever we find ourselves.

Three months has felt like a marathon as we continue to trust that this is the best path for us. It has been incredible to see how the road has risen up to meet us. As we have asked people to host us or simply prayed and asked God to lead us, the next steps have literally appeared.


Just last week I was feeling discouraged about being alone for a weekend while Mark flew back to Minnesota to DJ multiple events. I got a text from my friend Ami in San Antonio saying her family was gifted a beach house in Corpus Christi for the weekend and with only one days notice, she asked if I wanted to join them. Her family and friends’ company was refreshing, and I came back to pick Mark up from the airport at the end of the weekend feeling refreshed and ready to move forward.

We are spending most of January in the BIG state of TEXAS. From the freeways with more lanes than I’m used to, to the vehicles with waist high wheels, to the gas station, Buc-ees, with 200 gas pumps – everything’s bigger in Texas.


Tex Mex is everywhere. Tacos, burritos, fajitas, oh my! It would be hard to be vegetarian or vegan here….or a Democrat!

I don’t think I could live here year around simply because of the heat. We are fortunate to be here in January. We went into downtown San Antonio yesterday wearing shorts and someone asked where we were from. Apparently people from Texas don’t wear shorts this time of year because this is winter for them.


The highlight for me in Texas has been seeing new and old friends. We don’t have to stay in any hotels in this state. We have friends and family willing to host us.
Here are some of the people we have stayed with or spent time with so far.


Houston, TX.
Carson and Alicia Clark and family Wes and Lesley Patterson and family

San Antonio – Week One
Eric and Autumn Lundquist

Corpus Christi Beach House Weekend – Van and Ami Teodosio and family

San Antonio – Week 2 is off to a great start. Teodosio and Chouravong Family


Thanks to all of our past, present, and future hosts for welcoming us! Let me know if you are interested in seeing us as we head West to Arizona and California in February and March.

It’s been quite a ride, and it’s not over yet!

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New Orleans

We were told “You Must go to New Orleans!” I didn’t know much about the city, so I polled Facebook friends for ideas. The most common advice was “Eat ALL the food!” This city is famous for its jambalaya, seafood, po boys, red beans and rice, etouffée, and beignets. I was excited to try a few.

Our first stop was a walk through Jackson Square. A brass band was playing and we stopped to listen for awhile. There are street performers all over the place in the French Quarter. I soon realized that if I gave a tip to every musician, I would quickly run out of money. If you visit New Orleans, definitely bring some extra cash along to tip the musicians.
Our quest to try new foods began at a place called Nola Po-Boys. Here is a video of us trying these delicious sandwiches and the famous gumbo that everyone was talking about.

After trying the po-boys we moved onto another most recommended spot, Cafe DuMonde, home of beignets. These tasty little square pastries were quite reasonably priced. 3 for $3.85. They were served hot and covered in a mountain of powdered sugar. I enjoyed mine with an iced coffee.


There are a lot of artists displaying their work on the street corners and plenty of galleries and shops to walk through. We loved looking at all the Mardi Gras masks that were for sale.


We stayed at a hotel where we parked our car overnight for $40 and then took the streetcar around the city. We found it hard to find parking and were told it wasn’t safe to park our car overnight most places because of the number of break-ins. I’m not sure if this was entirely true, but we decided to go the safe route this time.
For dinner, we chose a place called Gumbo Shop. We wanted a sit down place where we could try a bunch of things but not break the bank. This place had a combination platter dinner so we ordered two and shared them between the four of us. Each dinner included either a salad or soup to start, an entree, a side, and a dessert. Mark ordered gumbo, etouffée, mashed potatoes, and a praline sundae. I ordered a salad, a combo plate that included red beans and rice, shrimp creole, and jambalaya, mashed potatoes, and chocolate cake. It was such a feast and we loved every bite.

The girls had very strong opinions about New Orleans. Ivy didn’t seem to like it much. She said it smelled and too many people were smoking everywhere we went. She also said it was too loud and overwhelming. We were only out until about 8pm, but the minute the sun went down, the streets kind of felt like the midway at the state fair. It is obviously a place people go to drink and party. We were there on a Thursday, and not close to Mardi Gras. I can’t imagine what Mardi Gras is like.
On our 2nd and final day in New Orleans, we went back to Cafe DuMonde for another round of beignets and then drove around the garden district where we had the most amazing bagels at a coffee shop called Rabbit’s Foot.

My final thoughts on New Orleans were the food was great, the music was great, but the atmosphere was not ideal for those who get overstimulated by noise and crowds. Mark LOVED it. He is more extroverted than I am. He liked striking up conversations with the street musicians and capturing them on video. Here are a few short clips.

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