Seasons of Parenting
My husband reminded me recently that parenting can be thought of in 3 stages. I’m sure he heard it from someone else, and I’d love to quote the source if you know it.
Ages 0-12 – The Parent is the coach
During these years, we show our kids what to do and why. This is a season of intense training. We teach our kids so much of what they will carry with them for the rest of their lives.
Ages 13-17 – The Parent is the cheerleader We step back and encourage our kids to live out what they know.
Ages 18+ – The Parent is the consultant During this phase, we can give advice, but only when asked or invited.
My oldest is 20 and my second is 18. Mark and I are stepping back and trusting that they have what it takes to make their own decisions. My youngest kids are 8 and 11 and still very much needing our coaching. I will be the first to admit that I get things wrong all the time with my oldest and my youngest. Thats why I need reminders like this.
Recognize the season you are in, ask for help, and give yourself grace