My Love for You

My love for you is not dependent on 

Getting good grades

Winning a contest 

Looking a certain way

Being popular

Getting a driver’s license 

Having friends

Graduating

Going to college

My love for you is not dependent on 

Your gender identity

Your sexual orientation

The state of your mental health

The state of your physical health

What religion you choose or don’t choose 

Your social status or wealth 

My love for you will not change if

You get cancelled on the Internet

Arrested

Suspended

Fired

Pregnant 

Or need to move back home someday 

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My love for you is not dependent on

If you marry

If you have children 

If you live close by or far away


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You are not a disappointment to me.  

I may be disappointed in circumstances

Or my shattered expectations

I may be surprised by things you say 

Or frustrated with how things turn out 

I may hurt if you are hurting 

And get angry and want to blame 

I may say things I regret 

I may even make you feel like you are

A disappointment

But, you’re not.  

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My love for you will always remain

For as long as I breath, you are my child

You cannot earn this love

You cannot change this love

You cannot lose this love 

This love for you is fierce

And it’s never going away